Welcome to The Lighthouse Sessions!
Are you a visionary founder who feels “Fogbound”?
Do you look successful on paper—the revenue is up, the team is growing, people call you a visionary—but secretly, you wake up wondering if you’re drifting?
You’re not alone. The hustle culture sold us a lie: that success means constant struggle. This episode is your call to the Lighthouse. In this transformational session, host Jeff Borschowa sits down with visionary leader and nervous system expert Monica Bozinov to expose why the traditional “hard work and grind” approach is actively sabotaging your creative genius and preventing sustainable growth.
This conversation is a love letter to the founder who craves clarity but can’t find it in another generic framework. Monica’s work is designed for the high-achieving founder who “builds tall, go big, and sees far”.
She reveals that your struggle isn’t a problem with your mindset; it’s a problem with your nervous system.
The Trap of Conditioning: Learn why you automatically choose the hard way by default. Monica explains how early-life “human domestication” rewards effort over output, installing a program that keeps you overworked and misaligned. The feeling of being trapped is real, and it’s a direct result of trying to fit your unique genius into a cookie-cutter system.
The Leaning Tower of Pisa: Monica uses this powerful analogy to show the enormous cost of not doing your foundation work. If you’re expending massive energy just to stay upright (the wobble) , you have no energy left for effortless, aligned growth. A stressed nervous system literally hijacks your brain, leading to poor, reactive decisions (fight, flight, freeze, fawn).
Finding “Easy Mode” and the Compass Within: True progress comes from shifting from working harder to aligning deeper. Monica defines Purpose not as what you do, but as “how you show up”. Learn how honoring your unique structure and capacity—your internal compass —gives you permission to lead like you were always meant to.
Radical Responsibility as Freedom: Stop seeing yourself as a victim of external forces or your past. Radical responsibility is the shift that gives you the profound freedom to choose better going forward. It’s the path to breaking the generational cycle of pain and trauma.
You are not the problem. You are simply navigating without a Lighthouse.
This episode provides the signal you’ve been listening for.
Watch the full episode now to stop chasing certainty and start remembering your way forward. Monica’s work is deeply personalized. Discover your load-bearing structure and what “easy mode” looks like for you.
➡️ Connect with Monica: MonicaBozinov.com
➡️ Monica shares a link in the show: monicabozinov.com/purposequiz